Yom Hashoa started here tonight. Unfortunately, we Jews do memorials well.
For all of our occasional ill-mannered ways, we have the most noble ways of
honoring our horrors. We had taken the whole family to the mall where our
dentist's office happens to be. We planned to eat dinner there afterwards.
When we entered the office, on the top floor of the mall, the mall was
packed. We didn't realize we'd be there so long but we left at 7:15, starved
, figuring we'd eat at the yucky food court, a big treat for the kids. When
we emerged from the office, the mall was deserted. Not a store or a
restaurant were open. As we drove out of the mall, we saw that all stores on
the streets were closed and the streets were dark. On the radio, only somber
music or holocaust related programs played on all of the stations. TV is the
same story. Even the movies on El Al, apparantly, are not their usual fare
and are related to the holocaust. No music is played. By 8PM the ceremony at
Yad Vashem had begun and was on all of the TV and radio stations. That every
business, without exception, closes, that the national media is sombre, that
all outward life is muted, is very powerful. The public respect for the
meaning behind the day is very profound.
Tomorrow at 10 AM the siren that sounds uncannily like a cry will sound and
all life will stand still for a moment. I never cease to be amazed by the
power of that collective moment. On Yom Hashoa I always feel particularly
proud of this tiny country. Just standing on this Jewish earth on this
particular day is comforting.
Monday, April 24, 2006
Yom Ha Shoah-ish
Thursday, April 20, 2006
Offical stuff
I'm now officially a licensed driver in the Bay State. My experience today
at the Milford branch of the Massachusetts Registry of Motor Vehicles was
much better than yesterday's venture to the one in North Attleboro.
(I was previously licensed in RI, lest you think I was one of those people
driving around without one because it had been suspended or something).
Wednesday, April 19, 2006
I scream, you scream....
RMV Rant
According to the Massachusetts Registry of Motor Vehicles, my birth
certificate is not a good enough form of ID (combined with my old RI
license) to grant me a driver's license in this state. My paycheck and an
official letter from the Massachusetts Dept. of Revenue, clearly states that
I am a MA resident (it has the word 'resident' on it several times)- both of
which list my Boston address- were not considered 'proper' proof of
residency. I mean, how much more official can you get than the tax people?
There are a few problems with the items they ask for to show proof of
residency:
- utility bill- we don't pay any, they're included in the rent
- mortgage- I rent
- lease- the lease in a drawer in the apartment doesn't have our names on it
(not sure what's up with that) - cable bill- roomie works for the cable company, so that bill is in his name
- phone bill- I only have a cell phone bill (home phone is Vonage, paid on
credit card, therefore no bill comes home) - bank statement- I think I can swing this one
They do get points for processing my paperwork, so all I have to do is show
up with the "proper" ID, and the woman took a decent picture of me.
AAAARRRRGH!
Of caskets in Cumberland
My coworkers (who graciously spent the day schooling me in Catholic Wake 101) and friends were surprised that I'd never seen a body before. Yesterday's wake seemed like a nice tradition, minus the open casket (I had visions of it dancing before my eyes as I fell asleep).
Jews don't do the open casket thing. Usually, at a Jewish funeral, that casket is rarely glimpsed, save for the actual burial. In fact, the wake reminded me of the Jewish tradition of sitting shiva, only with a body in the room. And minus the food.
My two previous non-Jewish funeral experiences were for my step-grandmother (Catholic- I was a kid, my dad banished me to a room with coloring books during the most of the wake) and my ex-boyfriend's grandfather (Unitarian- the minister did a great job, considering she'd never met the decedent), who died during my spring break, senior year of college.
Monday, April 17, 2006
Boobies gone wild
"Women did talk about how they wanted to do something for the Flames and this was something they could do."
And, for many, part of the fun was flouting societal norms.
"The word daredevilish kept coming up. This was something they could do that was just somewhat off the edge," Prof. Valentich said.
Other women said they felt like models or celebrities as cameras flashed at the sight of their exposed breasts.
Indeed, photos of those who took part soon appeared on the Internet.
Some participants felt they were part of history. "One of them said maybe it's insignificant, but when the kids look in the school books, I'll be there," Prof. Valentich said with a laugh.
Just one participant said she was making a political statement.
(article found via Fleshbot)
Marathon Monday
I'm learning to like these New England holidays.
Some pictures, courtesy of my cell phone camera:


What 'passes' for matzo
Friday, April 14, 2006
Jewish geography gets married
I'm not sure that I feel bad about it, just kind of odd. I don't feel compelled to get married because "everyone else is doing it" (nor do I plan to jump off any bridges for that reason). I suppose that, if anything, this news makes me feel older (that, plus my birthday yesterday).
All of this (plus my boredom being at mom's house with not much to do) combines to make me wonder what stage I'm at in life... How much of a grown-up am I?... Will I ever feel like a grown-up?
I'm ambivalent about marriage. My own parents divorced when I was little, so I don't feel that you need a husband + wife + kid(s) + pet to have a functioning family. What do I desire for my future?
Tuesday, April 11, 2006
Childhood
Monday, April 10, 2006
Pickup lines for women to use
Sunday, April 09, 2006
Commuter needs
If not, I'll bite the bullet and have to get a new car.
I like the new job. Too bad it's so far away.
Ah, the joys of commuting.
Monday, April 03, 2006
Friday, March 31, 2006
Car love
I'm also wondering about the commute now- like how I can do it with no car and wildly inconvenient commuter rail trains.
Your (friendly) neighborhood sex offender
(via Fleshbot)
Wednesday, March 29, 2006
Criminal minds are wondering.....
ATM Stolen from Dorchester Bar
At approximately 4:15 this morning, officers from District 11 responded to the D Bar on Dorchester Avenue for an alarm sounding. Upon arrival, they observed the rear door wide open with damages done to the lock. When the owner arrived at the scene, he told police that the ATM machine within the bar had in fact been stolen. It contained between $11,000 and $12,000. The incident remains under investigation.
(via BPD News)
This begs the question- how easy is it to get the ATM open to relieve it of the cash inside?
Thursday, March 23, 2006
You can tell me what to do when you grow a uterus
Babies as birth control
Saturday, March 18, 2006
Boston goes green
Among the things I did encounter last night:
-As we waited in line, the friends and I spotted this girl licking the shaved head of a bald guy through the window of the nearby Bell in Hand bar. Then she got on his lap (facing him) and began rhythmically moving up and down. I'm all for freedom of sexuality, but there was something kinda disturbing about this (maybe it had to do with licking some guy's head?). We pondered if she was wearing and skirt and wondered if they were doing the nasty in full view of anyone who walked by. Then he put his hand up her shirt, causing much muffin top to be come visible. I guess it's all fun and games until someone takes a picture and puts it on the internet.
-Overheard in the ladies room at the Oyster House- one girl says to her friend "...I can't believe you just threw up on me!"
-The 21st birthday of a pair of cute twins. Their friends and family had made up t-shirts for Mike and Brian's birthday pub crawl. Once they got out and saw the lines, they opted to stay at the Oyster House.(I think those were their names, I admit to being kind of tipsy last night). The back of the shirts said something like "remember when..." followed by lines like (and I swear I'm not making this up) 'Brian bit Mike. And mom bit Brian" and "When papa said 'they were triplet, but one died'".
Thursday, March 16, 2006
An education that pays
What is post-gentrification?
Wednesday, March 15, 2006
Retail death
Monday, March 13, 2006
Lights and sirens
I hope everyone is OK, as we have more than a few senior citizens living here.
Rites of spring
I love it when spring arrives. At the same time the beginning of a new season kind of depresses me, as it is a reminder that another block of my life is behind me. And I can't have that time back. I am forced to wonder if I am any closer to being where I want to be... or who I want to be. Sometimes I just take a look and think "what happened?"
Saturday, March 11, 2006
I tag, therefore I am
Wednesday, March 08, 2006
Car life
I have to admit, I do like having weekends back. It was sort of refreshing to be able to go out with my friends and have a life again on recent weekends.
The town the new job is in is absolutely adorable. If I were partnered with kids I'd love to live ther. Kind of reminds me of where I grew up, but a bit more rural.
Friday, March 03, 2006
Organize me, please
Baby protests music
met the woman who lives there, so no way to tell if she was pregnant
when they moved in). It's a screamer. But the funniest part is that I
think the kid is protesting their taste in music. Every time they put that crap on, it begins to scream. As much as I dislike this child (and the way it cries at top volume every single night), I can't argue with the kid's taste in music.
Monday, February 27, 2006
Holy Shiite!
Holy Shiite tomb attacked with rockets southeast of Baghdad
Thursday, February 23, 2006
Zipcar not so zippy
Naked chickens abound!
(via Universal Hub)
Monday, February 13, 2006
Shiny and new
Sunday, February 12, 2006
XTREME blog
Tuesday, February 07, 2006
BPD News goodness
Angry Customer Arrested at the "KFC" in Dorchester
Witnesses positively identified Dana Brown, 42, of Mattapan after he threw a rock breaking a double pane glass window at the "KFC" located at 465 Washington Street. According to witnesses, the suspect was upset that the employees at the store refused to give him food for free. He will be arraigned in the Dorchester District Court on Monday.
What's with the quotation marks? Makes it seem like a faux-KFC....
And who doesn't love this title?:
Two Bottles, Two Victims, Two Head Injuries Two male in their 20's from Marshfield and Fall River found out they had something in common at local Boston hospitals Sunday morning. Both victims were transported to different Emergency Rooms after being hit in their heads with bottles. The incidents occurred on Lansdowne Street and on Canal Street. Police are investigating both incidents; no arrests were made in either assault.
Monday, February 06, 2006
VOLUME
Saturday night I came home and they were having a party. The music was so loud that the reverb was coming out of our speakers. I have no idea how this is going to play out, being at that every other resident of this building, besides me and Roommate, is either elderly or has small children.
Friday, February 03, 2006
Wednesday, February 01, 2006
This Old House
Rattle 'n hum
Roommate and I are debating how to bet address the situation without starting a war (I cannot speak for the people in the apartments below the new neighbors and how they are dealing).
Monday, January 30, 2006
Beneath the floorboards
I nearly broke my hand knocking on his door to ask him to turn it down. To his credit, he did eventually answer the door and turned it down. Not down enough, but down. He seemed generally nice.
Now it's Monday night. Roommate and I have jobs that begin very early. Loud music in the evenings is not going to be a good thing. And it's not very good music either- I can't quite identify it, but let's just say synthesizers play a large role, as do drums. I don't want this to turn into a war, but I do not see the need to play music at full volume all the time. Oh yeah, and then they try to talk over it, can't hear each other and yell.I feel like putting on my Doc Martens and jogging around the apartment. But I'm not passive-aggressive, so I won't.
I grew up in an apartment/condo. There were four families in the building. The newest people to move in arrived when I as 6 (I'm now 26). We had respect for each other. Example- my upstairs neighbors understood that a little kid lived downstairs and nighttime was not the time to be doing loud things.
Wednesday, January 25, 2006
Locksmith wanted
Was another neighbor like drunk and forgot where he lived or something equally bizarre?
Not cool.
Spotted Hog
I just had to share that.
Things about Boston
Some things I find fascinating about Boston and the surrounding towns:
- Shortened street names-which is rather practical as far as I'm concerned....once you get used to it.
- I've long wondered- why there is no 'A' train on the Green Line? It seems to have existed at one point. (Maybe I'm just biased towards trains versus buses).
- The Green Line moves at a glacial pace. I'm becoming a bigger fan of the Orange Line, despite the loud high school kids that seem to always be on it with me.
- 'Express' means something very different in Boston transit terms than anywhere else I've ever been. I gave myself about an hour to get from JP to that part of Comm Ave., that should've been plenty. The 'express' train from Kenmore to Babcock St. took forever. I almost had to call and change my appointment, as the 'express' train was making me late.
- I saw a school bus run a red light. A school bus.
- It seems that almost all salons in the city are on Newbury St. Why?
- General chaos of parking regulations around here
- I saw a sign in Cambridge for 12 minute parking. That's so random.
- That residents of Cambridge are called Cantabrigians
- The layers of communication that exist online (outside of the mainstream media)
- That people in the metro area have not yet rebelled or staged a coup in response to the construction, Big Dig, or the flaws associated with it. (I thought I had it bad when I lived in N.Y. and N.J. Boy was I wrong).
- A prostitute is called a Common Night Walker
*It's not like I'd never been to Boston before moving here. I've long visited friends and gone to baseball games while living in nearby Providence for the past few years.
Tuesday, January 24, 2006
Bad day at work
....the president of the volunteer ambulance group, has agreed to a year's probation and to undergo retraining for deciding last May that lightning victim Kevin Crandall was dead when he was actually alive.
Monday, January 23, 2006
The white stuff
I spent a few years living in central New York, so I learned to drive in snow because I had to. Horrible, lake-effect, windy snowstorms. So, naturally, I have definite opinions about the way the cars around me function on the road during a snowstorm.
My pet peeves revolve around those people who think they're immune to the laws of physics and speed around the streets like it's a beautiful June day. One needs to learn to respect the snow and ice that layer the pavement, especially since salting the roads is not a concept that every municipality around here understands.
My other is about the fearful snow drivers. A healthy amount of fear is OK. Panic that is obvious to all the drivers around you is not. Someone in a Land Rover was in front of me at one point. I have a Subaru, which is a great car, but it wasn't built for roving through the African savannah (a friend who runs tours in Africa swears by Rovers). If I can get up a hill without skidding or sliding, there is no reason that the Land Rover in front of me needs to crawl up it at 15 mph. There was one person in a sedan who really should've just pulled over and let the eight cars behind him/her go. That person became a danger the moment another car tried to pass it on a one-lane road.
Sunday, January 22, 2006
Farewell to West Wing
The West Wing Blog tells us that the character of Vice Presidential candidate Leo McGarry, played by the recently deceased John Spencer, will die a few days before the general election. This makes me wonder- how many times on WW can a dead guy get elected?
I'll really miss the show. Sometimes it's like a civics class, but less boring. Nothing is black or white. It's complex and has characters that can have many subtleties. Sometimes it can get a tad bit overdramatic. But it tends to do so with much more wit and better writing than other shows.
Saturday, January 21, 2006
Don't shoot the messenger: Part II
She continues to look at me skeptically. Asks if I mind if she emails my supervisor to ask him herself. I tell her that I have no problem with this (since she's just going to hear the same answer).
This is one thing I do not like about TV news. Reporter gave me the impression that she thought I was deliberately standing in her way of Emmy (or whatever award) glory. I'm not. I would've loved to have been able to help her. Now I just ant to help her deal with her paranoia issues.
I don't dislike people unless they give me a reason to. I'm not here to stand in anyone's way because that's probably not going to be so productive for me in the end. Catch more flies with honey then with vinegar, right?
work
Thursday, January 19, 2006
Stanley Cup
Doggy style
Wednesday, January 18, 2006
Boston PD takes offense...
We have heard from a number of people about several of the concerns that were raised in the opinion piece. Therefore, in our commitment to provide the community with accurate and updated information on department-related issues, we felt it was necessary to provide these clarifications.
Here are quotes directly from the opinion editorial followed by the correct information.
Quote: There is not one African- American commanding any of Boston's 13 precincts.Clarification: It is assumed that by 'precincts' the author is referring to our police districts. 'Precincts' is a term used by New York City, however it is not commonly used in Boston.
(as seen on BPDNews)
Windy Wednesday
American Idol
Tuesday, January 17, 2006
Saturday, January 14, 2006
Why do the TV programming deities hate me?
I am so frustrated. I want a life. I want to have a fair chance to actually make friends in my new city. I am turning into one of those people that I feared- the person who doesn't have any friends because their oddball schedule keeps them from meeting anyone that they don't work with (and things aren't so great with that either, but that's another ranty post for another time).
And I had such fun plans for tonight- to go out dancing to blow off steam.
Update: Broncos buck Pats 27-13
It's a little after midnight and I am still here. I have to wait until the post-game show is done and then wait 20 minutes for the highlight tape to be edited for me. Let me tell you, the Sports guys are just thrilled about having to do that on top of dealing with producing a show with one reporter halfway across the county.... They told me (in a pissy voice full of attitude no less) that News is supposed to do that.... Hey, I'm just the messenger, please don't shoot me.
I appreciate Sports doing this for me (note- a higher up asked Sports to do it, not me). I actually don't know who is supposed to make the web-safe sports highlight tape for us normally because:
- it would be far beyond this place to have some sort of order to it
- I'm not usually here when the 'special' package is given to us webbies
- Someone would have to tell me that the editor who does the sports wrap-up tape every morning actually worked in one department vs. another. I have no idea what the departmental breakdowns are (unless you work in sales, then I can figure it out by the way you dress and the fact that you work in another part of the building).
The egg cream
Friday, January 13, 2006
TV newswear
Thursday, January 12, 2006
Nice winter weather a danger to kids?
Tuesday, January 10, 2006
When a member of the tribe goes too far
A few thoughts:
- He could just buy a Russian bride
- I wonder if he wants to actually be a father or just spread his seed? Will be be a daddy or a baby-daddy?
- He'd probably get better responses if he offered something other than his DNA in return- cash, marriage, housing, etc... .
A hooker by any other name....
New Jersey Women Arrested as Common Night Walker in South End
Police Officers assigned to District 4 in the South End arrested 21 year-old XXX XXXXX of Port Monmouth, New Jersey as a Common Night Walker early this morning. The Officers arrested XXXX at the intersection of Berkley Street and Appleton Street around 0145hrs after observing her for the third time in various locations in the South End where complaints of prostitution have been identified.
Apparently here in the capital city we refer to a hooker as a "Common Night Walker"
1. "Common Night Walker" sounds like some kind of bird -Tom and Sally spotted three Common Night Walkers with unusual plumage on their way to the T.
2. What do we call a hooker out working the corner before dusk- a "Common Day Walker"?
'Plain' and simple?
I'm a recent transplant to Boston and have the same ambivalence about the place that many subjects in the article expressed. I enjoy the charm and the greenery, the open-minded spirit of the community. On the flip side I was dismayed to see how many 'useful things' the area lacks. Or, as Chris mentions, it doesn't function like a normal city neighborhood should. But, rents in Boston being what they are I found an affordable place in JP and would've been silly not to take it. I'm not saying that a Starbucks is a necessity, but a more mainstream supermarket would be great. I hate having to drive to West Roxbury or Brookline for everyday food- it makes me thankful I have a car. And where does one go to rent a mainstream movie in JP?
This is familiar turf for owner Vince Petryk, who walks into J.P. Licks just as my conversation with his customers is ending. Petryk, who's wearing a black-and-white scarf and has fogged eyeglasses from the cold, says that of his eight stores scattered around Greater Boston, his "mother ship"Âas he calls the JP one, where all the ice cream is madeÂremains his busiest. And other than a few restaurants, such as Zon's, with its delicious comfort food, from mac and cheese to meatloaf to lamb burgers, and Ten Tables, one of Boston's most romantic spots, which has just landed one of the city's best chefs in Amanda Lydon, J.P. Licks might be the only destination in Jamaica Plain that draws outsiders to the strip.
Just this year, after the tired-looking post office next door was rebuilt, Petryk spruced up his own sidewalk table space, something he wishes more of his neighbors would do. It's hard not to notice the Chinese restaurant across the street with the graffiti-scarred metal grate, or the office building with the drab, worn-down signs.
Vince Petryk is correct when he suggests that other merchants on Centre Street work on the outward appearance of their businesses and of the street in general. It's got a bunch of cute stores, but it's not a cute street. And cute streets bring in the money. (Note- this does not mean conformist with all stores looking alike, it just means less shabby and more 'shabby chic').
There's no need to completely sell out to chains stores, but there must be some sort of happy medium.
Workplace blues
An employee gets a day off with pay on these holidays:
New Years Day
Martin Luther King Day
Presidents Day
Memorial Day
Independence Day
Labor Day
Thanksgiving Day
Christmas Day
But hourly (non-salaried) employees are only paid overtime on these days:
New Years
July 4th
Thanksgiving
Shouldn't I get paid overtime for working on every holiday that a 'regular' employee gets off? If I was an hourly employee in the Sales Department I'd have the day off. Somehow this does not seem fair. (Yes, I know, not everything in life is fair.....But still, this doesn't seem cool).
While we're on the topic....
I am still feeling like a fish out of water in many ways at work. It's tough to bond with co-workers when your back is to them (this thought is echoed by at least one other web person at the station) since you're not really a part of conversations, whether they relate to News or not. I feel that I am not really making friends as easily as I usually do. This also has to do with my odd schedule since I'm not really able to socialize a few nights of the week since I need to be in bed so early. Doesn't help that I work one night per weekend.
Monday, January 09, 2006
Concept cars cool in more ways than one
- The Lincoln MKX has heated and cooled front seats...so your butt is always the right temperature.
- The new Buick has individual DVD players for each occupant. Somehow this seems like a bit much. I spent many valuable hours honing my creativity skills while daydreaming on long car rides. (I also taught myself how to read using the exit signs along the L.I.E. when shuttling between the divorced parents almost every weekend).
- A new CUV from Ford... they felt it important to stress in the press release that this is not an off-road vehicle. It's also got a 20 oz. cup holder for your Big Gulp.
Saturday, January 07, 2006
Morbid curiosity of TV news
It struck me as morbid at first, but then I remembered that success "is where preparation and opportunity meet" ( at least according to Bobby Unser). And we strive to be successful a this channel.
Thursday, January 05, 2006
'Mining' the truth
Readers would be even more forgiving if today's stories stated: 'Families and friends of the missing miners celebrated news of a miracle in the early morning hours Wednesday. The governor said the miners were alive. The friends and families said they were alive. Both said they were informed by sources within the rescue command center. The mining company had not made an official statement as of 1 a.m.'”
Side note- It's creepy and somehow intrusive to have reporters reading text from notes left by the miners before dying. The messages were most likely meant for family and friends, not to be shared with the entire media-saturated world.
Wednesday, January 04, 2006
'Miner' trouble in W.V.
Watching the MSNBC recap of 'how could the media have screwed this up?'
It's really hard to know who to trust on this one (and I'm saying this as a member of the Evil Mainstream Media).
Tony Macilius, an MSNBC producer made a good point when he said that not only were the mainstream media to blame for the error, but so are the bloggers who crucify the mainstream media. I can't speak for the validity of how many bloggers got the info correct vs. media conglomerates, but when I blog about something 'real' I use the same standards that I would at work. When is comes down to it I wrote it. And if it's incorrect I'm going to get blamed for it. So I want to make sure my facts are correct.
Interesting this happened this morning at work though. A bunch of people in the news room were pondering the idea of such bastions of journalism as the NY Times, USA Today, and the Boston Herald having incorrect info on the first draft of their front pages...and wondering how to counteract that, I put in my two cents- that's what you have a website for. (Sure enough, by around 7 A.M., if not earlier, the NY Times and USA Today had corrections on their website).
Ummm..and Dick Cheney picks today to speak out about the 'mixed messages' that the troops in Iraq are getting...?....For some reason this seems insensitive to me.
As I watch the press conference given by the president of International Coal Group, Inc. I am reminded of something my Intro to PR told the class- when you're in a crisis situation, stay with one spokesperson and don't lie. I imagine that the company's lawyers are upset that he's going to risk standing up against the media but it's his company an his mistake. (He does seem very upset and emotional...either that or he's a really good actor). He's also choosing to go over a timeline of the flow of information that led to misinformation being sent out into the world. And he keeps praising the rescue/ removal team. This is a good way for the company to save face in the looming 'miscommunication' that occurred.
Oh, wait. They've got a second guy. Not sure what his name is...another mining exec, perhaps? He's crying too. Mine rescuers called base and told everyone that 12 people were alive, then asked all non-necessary personnel to leave the room at the fresh air base. Non-essential personnel went out to spread the joy.... even though they were explicitly told not to do so. OOPS!
Police puzzle
Open season
Anyway, one of the anchorpeople thought that s/he'd show off for the interns and began bossing people around and making elaborate 'suggestions'- made me think of the movie Anchorman. Also made me thankful that my job does not require me to deal with the anchors all that often (though there is a weekend weather guy I'm not crazy about...but that's for another time...).
I often wonder if other industries, besides broadcasting, experience a glut of eager young interns at a certain time of the year.....
Tuesday, January 03, 2006
Not again
This is a Tuesday night, not a weekend night, like last time.
Storm Central
I suppose in some way a huge blizzard, while inconvenient, is a news station's wet dream. Then the money spent on the Storm Central/Storm 2006/Storm Watch setup can be justified.
Wednesday, December 28, 2005
MBTA musings
Sunday, January 1st- New Year's Day
*Blue, Orange, Green, and Red Line trains will operate on a Sunday schedule
*Buses and trackless trolleys will operate on a Sunday schedule
Umm...it's Sunday anyway... I wonder if anyone would've noticed anything different?
Monday, December 26, 2005
Frustration ensues
OK. I feel a bit better after venting.
Sunday, December 25, 2005
Merry Sunday!
Saturday, December 24, 2005
The PJs, take II
Friday, December 23, 2005
Yankees show Damon the $$$
Wednesday, December 21, 2005
Crimes & misdemeanors
A friend was waiting at my apartment for me to be finished with work so that we could go out after. He said that around 10:30 PM (about when I was due home) he heard a lot of yelling and angry sounds coming from the driveway to the complex and was worried that I would drive in and there might be some sort of unpleasant result. What came to mind was that some kids might be in the driveway, I'd get pissed (as I am not the most patient person when it comes to idiotic pedestrians), honk at them or something, and get shot at or have some other unpleasant confrontational experience.
Hearing that there was some sort of beef or whatever earlier in the night makes me think that the person with the weapon was, as my roommate suggested, an uninvited guest to a party in one of the buildings. Hopefully it was not someone who lives here. Hopefully. Roomie also found out from a friend of his who is the Gang Unit Coordinator on the police force in a nearby town, who upon being told about what happened here over the weekend, said that about 10 years ago in Boston crime was way up (in fact, the city is experiencing the highest rate of crime since then) and that gangs are recruiting kids younger and younger these days. I'm not jumping to the conclusion that there is a gang problem in the area that I live in. I'm just mulling over the information that I was given.
I wish that I could afford to live someplace better. A problem for me is that I need an assigned parking spot in the immediate vicinity of my house. I'm not going to wander around a dark street in the pre-dawn hours to find my car. That's not so safe either.
But I don't want to have to worry about stray bullets. And I don't want anyone visiting us to have to take that risk either. I know that I live in a city and that there are many risks that we take every single day. Just getting into a car in this city is a risk because of all the people who obviously got their driver's licenses at Sears, as my grandfather would say. But I'd like to do all that I can to lessen the risk to myself, whether it means using my turn signals or moving for a second time in less than 3 months.
Holiday treats
I am finding that sometimes a newsroom can be a caring place. (Sometimes it's cold and filled with the scent of paranoia, but that's a topic for another post....).
Monday, December 19, 2005
Shots fired
Gun Recovered, Suspects Arrested after Shots Fired in xxxx xxxxx
Around 2:45am officers from District 13 responded to a shots fired call in the area of 133 xxxxxxx xxxxxx Street. Three suspects were arrested in connection with the incident. One suspect, a juvenile male attempted to run from police but was apprehended a short distance away. The juvenile was found to be in the possession of a .38 caliber black handgun. Other ballistic evidence was recovered from the scene. Arraignment will be in West xxxx District Court. The juvenile is charged with Resisting Arrest, Assault with Intent to Murder, Unlawful Possession of a Firearm/Ammunition, and Firearm Discharged within 500 feet of Dwelling.
(courtesy of BPDNews)
I no longer feel safe in my own home. I am suddenly much more empathetic to the residents of (insert name of ghetto neighborhod here). I can't imagine what life is like when the bullets fly on a nightly basis.
My roommate says that this is the first time anything like this has ever happened in the seven years that he's lived in this apartment.And I do comprehend the fact that I live in a city. But I happen to think that even one shooting outside your apartment complex (even if no one dies and the person responsible is arrested) is still one time too many.
Friday, December 16, 2005
Thursday, December 15, 2005
Inferior work environment
Luckily I've never been asked to fix anyone's computer. But I do get the impression that some a decent number of people at the station view me as inferior because I'm not a 'regular' producer. I think that they are lucky- what they write is not written down for any viewers to see so they can toss grammar out the window if they'd like. I have to make sure I spell things correctly, have proper capitalization, etc.... My job isn't rocket science but it is challenging and I do have to use my brain. Some days I mightt wish that I was a 'regular' because I'm feeling inferior or whatever but then I remind myself that I'm just as good as they are. Unless they make way more $$$. In that case, sign me up.
From the peanut gallery:
Station executives are often all talk about how hot they are for the web, while rank-and-file TV staffers treat the web team like they work in IT.
If they're so hot for the web, why isn't my salary higher? Where's my health insurance?
I have news for this commenter- our website/webcenter are run by a guy who has to deal with all that crap....and we still get the short ed of the stick. I'm not blaming him. In fact, I I really wouldn't know who to blame since I haven't been there long enough to know how the machine functions.
The war on Christmas
A friend of mine was asked by his company's art director what he thought of the holiday card that the art director had designed. Friend looks at it and comments that it has a Christmas tree on it. Then he asked the art director if the company was planning to send it to the mayor (they work for a company that has some local government contracts). Art director says that they were. Non-Jewish friend then points out that the mayor of their mid-sized city is Jewish and that many of their clients were non-Christians of some sort. He then had to explain to the art director that Jews don't tend to get completely offend if they get a holiday card that has a more Christmas theme (vs. holiday or seasonal), but that non-Christians do tend to think favorably of you if you opt to send them a more non-denominational greeting. Art director then saw the light.
That is a perfectly reasonable way to explain how non-Christians (and even some Unitarians) might feel about the season. I do not understand how that has turned into a war on Christmas.
Even the president is feeling the heat. Never mind that the first family has to send those cards to many non-Christians, not just Jews. And the New Year is a calendar holiday*, not a religious one, so it's perfectly reasonable to send every American you know a card that says Happy New Year.
I, as a Jew, feel kind of attacked. This is all so silly. So much for that immigrant dream that my grandparents had, that America was for all people. What scares me the most about those who feel that all non-white Christians should not live here is that their families most likely immigrated here too.
*though I did have one rabbi in hs who refused to celebrate it because he insisted it was a celebration of the bris of Jesus since it occurred eight days after Xmas.
religion, holidays , Judaism
Tuesday, December 13, 2005
Adjustment
New job, which I guess is not so new anymore, is going fine. I like that it challenges me. When I go into work I never know what I might have to write about that day- baseball, obit, politics, natural disasters, the arts, etc.... I guess that's why it's called 'news'....
I wish that I felt more connected with a larger amount of people that I work with. It can be kind of tough since the fluxuating schedules of people who work in a newsroom tend to be about as far from bankers' hours as you can get. As I must've kvetched about before, I dislike the setup of my work area since it leaves me with my back to the newsroom. Not only do I come across as rude and/or unfriendly (or so I worry), but anyone there can read what's up on my nice large flat screen monitor (not that I'm surfing porn or anything, but I do prefer some modicum of privacy, or at least the illusion of it). I am getting used to sharing a desk/computer/workspace with four other people. I do long for my own drawer, so that I could leave some things at the station. Every desk has the same crappy chair that is warping the backs of many staffers. I wish ergonomics mattered to the powers that be.
Enough tired rambling for now.....
moving,work
Tuesday, December 06, 2005
Pro gear
Monday, December 05, 2005
HDTV
HDTV is amazing! (Assuming the program you're watching was filmed in HD). Football looked so crisp and clear that I felt like I was actually at the game. I can't wait to watch hockey on it, maybe I'll actually be able to see the puck, not just a fuzzy black thing swirling around the ice. I can now feel better about myself in comparison to celebs, as HDTV makes it easier to see their imperfections. On a related note, I began to watch The Last Samurai on the new TV and Tom Cruise still manages to look amazing.
